Couples Reconnection Session

1.        Introduction

Couples spend a fair bit of time together and over the years, our modern lifestyles mean we spend less time focused on each other or even the relationship itself. Essentially, we work towards prioritising other aspects of our modern life and of course this means less on the relationship – quite logical actually.  Each partner still loves the other, however the first energies or feelings on which our relationship was built on in the first few years are likely have dissipated. 

The spark may have gone out of the relationship.

This service is about reigniting those energies and rekindling the positive emotions that have somewhat been neglected or dissipated. To achieve this, a holistic approach is being undertaken and a level of advance preparation is required.  Under a holistic arrangement, the five senses come into play, mind body and spirt and the chakras or the body’s energy system.  My initiative ability will enable me to tap into the positive moments of the past and reignite them in the couple.

A great relationship is like two rose vines sharing a trellis although they are potted in separate pots.

The two rose vines bring together the nutrients from their own pot to the relationship and coming together make the trellis (their marriage) a beautiful place to be.

The goal is to dissolve the accumulated unwanted energies that are not helping the relationship and set up open, authentic, clear and non-judgement connection between the couple. 

There are three parts to the reconnection.

1.1           Reconnection

This part enables the releasing of the past unwanted energies and creating space for new energies and a basis for reconnection.

1.2           Experiencing

This part enables you experience a joyful state and reconnecting in the present moment.

1.3           Acknowledgement

This part enables you to acknowledge yourself and your partner and the steps you will undertake to continue to keep these energies alive between you both.

2.        PREPARATION

2.1           Information

Each person to complete the attached form and return it to me.

2.2           Room Preparation

Any time Before the Session

Juices: Prepare three coloured juices of one hundred mls each e.g., a red juice (e.g., beetroot), orange juice, a green juice (spinach or similar) and one clear juice e.g., coconut juice.

The juices need to be in this colour, however, need to be fresh and can have other ingredients e.g., banana.  They can be refrigerated and should be able to pour out of the container which they are held in.

Herbal Tea: Prepare to have ready a blend of herbal tea that you both prefer.

Writing: Have ready some paper and pens.

Clothing: Please wear clothing that is comfortable.

Food: Three favourite foods or snacks each person likes. It needs to be only one mouth full in quantity.

One Hour Before

Air in the Room: Open the room to fresh air for at least 10 minutes one hour before the session.  It may be cold, and the hour allows the room to warm up again assuming the heating is on.

Seating: The ability to both sit and lie down comfortably in the room. Lots of cushions and pillows are recommended.

Furniture: You may need to arrange some furniture (see below for seating preparation).

Thirty Minutes Before

Scents or incense sticks should be used in the room at least 10 minutes

Light two candles and placed the centre of the room.  Both people with be facing each other as there is a requirement to hold hands.  If you are sitting on chairs, then there can be a table at which sit at but not necessary.  The candles can be placed on the floor or two small tables.

Turn off all mobiles and disconnect the Wi-Fi and any other communication items. Put a “Do Not Disturb” sign on your front door.

Five minutes before

Just sit and relax facing each other waiting for me to start the session via zoom.

3.        The Session

I will guide you through all the elements of the session. There is likely to include:

• Words, feelings and emotions being expressed
• Non-denominational prayer
• Writing
• Smiling
• Laughter
• Joyful feelings
• Physical activity

Other elements maybe introduced although not stated above and flexibility is requested.

4.        Post Session

There will need to burn of paper and collection of the ash to release later. Specific instructions for this will be provided.

Plan to have a meal together afterwards and express how you felt about the session and undertake to cement the positive aspects into your lives.

Consider planning to regularly undertake one positive activity or action together that was expressed at the session.

5.        The cost

The session is expected to be 90 minutes approximately. The rate is £87 per hour and therefor the charge for one person is £130.50. The charge for the additional person is an additional 50% so the total charge would be £195.75